operating environments can be very challenging, balancing of internal staff with all external customers and suppliers. Everyday you're putting yourself on the line for the company's behalf, but you work with ethical people? When you look at companies that inflate their sales, provide information that is incorrect to shareholders or to cover up the problems that are harming their employees, consumers or the environment, who is responsible and who pays the price? Enron, Tyco, WorldCom and Adelphia are examples where dishonesty is a tool of greed that has committed fraud.
distorted facts are not always obvious at first, but when the fraud and deception are the reflection, the mirror image will haunt you. Arrogance and manipulation to dictate to the dual standards such as "Do as I say, not as I do." This results in consistent behavior that causes so much hypocrisy underlying hostility in our society. Every time someone misrepresents the facts, do not mind a double take on what's real and what is being said. It is like keeping two sets of books, the exact version and a set of false, which causes internal stress which increases with every lie he said. Think about the person who's always blaming others for his problems and has many excuses why goals are not achieved. Their insults are constantly shifting blame away from themselves to others. But when you listen closely, you hear the contradictions. Verbal disorder caused by congestion from those who like to create chaos in any cover their tracks and spin around so that you lose track. When transparency is lacking, so that's the truth.
You have the ability to see through the facade of the individual to speak or do you just take the word at face value? When you listen and wonder, "can not believe what they say," that gut instinct is telling you, "some things wrong." Words can be honest and positive or dishonest and rude. our mind takes honest information with clarity and our sense that she feels good about the interaction. when it does not make sense, they were filled with talk of justification and / or contradictions, waving the red flag prijevare.Kratkoročni gain comes from dishonesty is a fraction of what they really want, rather than keep it for very long, did not cause them to start. How many times can one lie before it is not worth your time? When people fall back to create more lies and cover-ups, this is when logic goes out the window. this is similar to listening to music that is annoying distortion, do not want to hear, so turn it off. when the value of integrity, you have a clear sense of pride and respect . These values are echoed in everything we do and apply to your success on a daily basis. Decisions are the priority for keeping the big picture in perspective, think through the intent and understanding how your choices affect everyone involved. implementation of the initiative, more things we right the first time, spend less time fixing bugs.
Training for the gold in any business requires consistency, determination and integrity. Words create our path of action to take and it starts with every CEO and supervisors at all levels, professors, teachers and parents, setting an example of how the perspective should always be objective and clarity comes with the check information. Be the catalyst that you want your users to take and train them on how to make appropriate decisions having goals in perspective. Using our mind in a positive constructive way, sequences of our brains to find solutions that benefit everyone involved real. When you work with people you trust, the foundation is strong and achievements will exceed expectations.
There are no degrees of honesty, you are either or not. Truth stands the test of time and should not be an excuse. We become more in line with disclosure when someone is twisting and weaving the reality of taking time to listen. When you hear conflicting information, bring people together in the same room. It's amazing how often the story changes when you sit across from each other and you can hear that changes its version. Do not make dishonesty an easy path to take because you assume. We get a panoramic view with a much clearer awareness when we take time to check.
Our conscience is our guide when we do the right thing for the right reasons, and we truly care about the people involved. Give yourself some checks and balances as "I want my mother or brother to see what I did on the morning news?" Try to visualize the possibilities, evaluate the situation, think about the outcome and consequences of your actions will cause before making your choice. We choose our direction decisions we make, it can be calm or troubled.
peace comes with knowing the truth and to welcome the best quality we see in each other. Be true to yourself, so you can see and hear the truth in others. We can not expect more from someone other than my own. This awareness has the highest value, when we know for sure we can trust. If there is any doubt in your mind, take time to clarify. This is your life, your future and your company's cost dionica.Istina a way of making us stronger and keeping us right, so that our mind can focus on what's important, and we can be most effective.
Excerpt from the new book peace published in early 2008
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